New Year. 2017. I am twenty-seven years old, married, one kid, working at Chrysler, living in Detroit. If I had written a plan for my life at eighteen, none of this would have been on it. The plan was: basketball scholarship, college, maybe pro (the dream within the dream), definitely a life bigger than the east side of Detroit. Instead, the knee blew, the dream died, and I built a different life from the wreckage. It is not the plan. But it is a life.
New Year's Eve was quiet. Brianna and I stayed home. We put Aiden to bed at seven-thirty, opened a bottle of champagne (seven dollars, Aldi), and watched the countdown on TV. At midnight, we kissed. It was not a passionate kiss — it was a comfortable kiss, the kiss of two people who have been together long enough to know that the kiss is a ritual, not a revelation. She said, "Happy New Year." I said, "Happy New Year." We went to bed at twelve-fifteen. This is adulthood: champagne from Aldi and bedtime at twelve-fifteen and the hope that next year will be better than this one.
Back to the plant on Monday. The first shift of the year is always brutal — cold, dark, everyone still digesting holiday food, the line starting up after two weeks of silence like an engine turning over in January. Jerome was already there when I arrived, which is unusual — Jerome runs on a schedule that is reliable but never early. "New Year's resolution," he said. "Show up early. Be the first one here." I said, "It's January 2nd. How long is this lasting?" He said, "Probably until January 4th." He was right. By Thursday he was back to his usual arrival time. Resolutions are ambitions with expiration dates.
My resolution, for what it is worth, is to be more present. Not just physically — I am physically present, always, because that is what Carters do — but emotionally. I want to listen to Brianna without formulating a response. I want to play with Aiden without checking my phone. I want to sit at Mama's table on Sunday and taste the food instead of just eating it. I want to be in the room, not just in the room.
Sunday dinner was black-eyed peas and cornbread. This is a New Year's tradition in the Carter family, carried north from Louisiana by Mama's mother: black-eyed peas for luck, greens for money, cornbread for gold. The peas are cooked with smoked ham hocks and served over rice with hot sauce. It is simple and ancient and superstitious and delicious. Dad ate two bowls and said, "Good year coming." He says this every year. I choose to believe him every time.
Mama’s black-eyed peas are the real thing — and I’d never try to replace them. But on the Sundays when I’m the one cooking, when I want to carry that same spirit of luck and intention into a meal I can actually pull off in my own kitchen, this Black Bean and Sweet Corn Quinoa Salad is where I land. The black beans bring that same earthy, hopeful energy as the peas; the sweet corn is the gold. It’s not Grandma’s recipe, and it doesn’t pretend to be — but it’s the kind of food that makes you stop, taste it, and actually be in the room.
Black Bean and Sweet Corn Quinoa Salad
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 20 min | Total Time: 35 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 1 cup dry quinoa, rinsed
- 2 cups water or low-sodium vegetable broth
- 1 (15 oz) can black beans, drained and rinsed
- 1 1/2 cups sweet corn kernels (fresh, frozen and thawed, or canned and drained)
- 1 red bell pepper, diced
- 1/2 red onion, finely diced
- 1/3 cup fresh cilantro, chopped
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 3 tablespoons fresh lime juice (about 2 limes)
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1/2 teaspoon chili powder
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon smoked paprika
Instructions
- Cook the quinoa. Combine quinoa and water (or broth) in a medium saucepan over medium-high heat. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to low, cover, and simmer for 15 minutes until liquid is absorbed. Remove from heat and let sit, covered, for 5 minutes. Fluff with a fork and spread onto a baking sheet or large plate to cool for 10 minutes.
- Make the dressing. In a small bowl, whisk together the lime juice, olive oil, minced garlic, cumin, chili powder, smoked paprika, salt, and black pepper until fully combined.
- Combine the salad. In a large mixing bowl, add the cooled quinoa, black beans, sweet corn, diced red bell pepper, red onion, and cilantro. Pour the dressing over the top.
- Toss and season. Gently toss everything together until evenly coated. Taste and adjust seasoning with additional salt, pepper, or lime juice as needed.
- Rest and serve. For best results, let the salad rest for at least 10 minutes before serving to allow the flavors to meld. Serve at room temperature or chilled. Leftovers keep well in an airtight container in the refrigerator for up to 4 days.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 285 | Protein: 11g | Fat: 7g | Carbs: 45g | Fiber: 8g | Sodium: 310mg
About the cook who shared this
DeShawn Carter
Week 41 of DeShawn’s 30-year story
· Detroit, Michigan
DeShawn is a thirty-six-year-old single dad, auto plant worker, and a man who didn't learn to cook until his wife left and his five-year-old asked, "Daddy, can you cook something?" He called his mama, who came over with two bags of groceries and spent six months teaching him the basics. Now he's the dad at the cookout who brings the ribs, the guy at the plant whose leftover gumbo starts fights, and living proof that it's never too late to learn.