I graduated.
Thursday night, Granby High School gymnasium, 247 seniors in blue caps and gowns, and I was one of them. Rachel Leigh Abernathy, diploma in hand, tassel switched from right to left, officially done with high school and the longest stretch of stability I have ever known.
The ceremony was the usual — speeches about futures and potential and 'you can be anything you want,' which is a nice thing to tell 247 teenagers, most of whom just want summer to start. The valedictorian quoted someone inspirational. The principal mispronounced three names. I sat between Ashley Adams and David Alderman and we whispered through the boring parts and clapped too loud for our friends and when they called my name, I walked across that stage and heard my father — my quiet, stoic, sits-in-the-garage-in-the-dark father — yell 'THAT'S MY GIRL' at a volume that would have been appropriate at a football game but was objectively too loud for an indoor ceremony.
Mom cried. Obviously. Megan clapped politely. Grant the Consultant clapped politely. Keisha's whole family was there and they were louder than everyone, which is just who they are and I love them for it. Keisha and I found each other after the ceremony and hugged and cried because we're eighteen and dramatic and also because four years of friendship is the longest either of us has kept a friend and that means something when you're a military kid.
The party was Saturday. It was perfect. Mom's pulled pork was fall-apart tender and the barbecue sauce had that vinegar bite that makes you want to eat it on everything. The pimento cheese was gone in forty minutes. Dad manned the cooler of drinks and told the same three jokes he always tells and everyone laughed because you laugh at a veteran's jokes even when they're bad, especially when they're bad, because the man earned his bad jokes.
Keisha came, and Maddie, and Jordan, and Tay, and we sat in the backyard and ate pulled pork sandwiches and talked about the future like it was a place we could see from here. Keisha's going to Norfolk State. Maddie's going to community college. Jordan's joining the Air Force, which makes perfect sense because Jordan has been the organized one since freshman year and the military runs on organized people.
Dad gave me a card after everyone left. Inside was a $500 check — 'For your first semester. Buy books. Or whatever you need.' And underneath, in his cramped handwriting: 'I'm proud of you, Rachel. Always have been. Always will be.' I sat on my bed and read it four times. My father, who barely speaks, who communicates in eggs and gardening, wrote 'always will be' with a period at the end, and that period meant he was certain.
I start ODU in September. I have a whole summer ahead of me — my last summer as just a kid, I think, or maybe the first summer as whatever comes next. Mom asked me what I wanted for dinner tonight and I said, 'Whatever you want to make.' She made her chicken and dumplings, which is what she makes when something is over and something else is beginning. The dumplings are fluffy and the broth is rich and the chicken is tender and it tastes like every ending and every beginning my family has ever had.
I am eighteen years old. I have a diploma and a $500 check and a family that yells too loud at graduations. I don't know what I want to be. But I know what I come from, and tonight, with chicken and dumplings in my belly and my father's handwriting in my pocket, that's enough.
It's always enough.
Mom’s chicken and dumplings is the dish our family reaches for when one chapter closes and another one opens — and when she asked what I wanted for dinner after graduation, I didn’t even have to think. This Butter Chicken Pot Pie with Naan Crust carries that same energy: tender chicken, a broth that wraps around you, and something soft and golden on top that earns every bite. It’s got all the warmth of the dumplings I grew up on with a little more richness, the kind of meal that feels like it was made for a night when you want to sit at the table and not rush away from it. Make it when something is over and something else is beginning — trust me, it tastes exactly like that.
Butter Chicken Pot Pie with Naan Crust
Prep Time: 20 minutes | Cook Time: 45 minutes | Total Time: 1 hour 5 minutes | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 2 lbs boneless, skinless chicken thighs, cut into 1-inch pieces
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
- 1 tablespoon olive oil
- 1 medium yellow onion, diced
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon fresh ginger, grated (or 1 teaspoon ground ginger)
- 2 tablespoons tomato paste
- 1 1/2 teaspoons garam masala
- 1 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1 teaspoon ground coriander
- 1/2 teaspoon turmeric
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper (optional)
- 1 (15 oz) can crushed tomatoes
- 1 cup chicken broth
- 3/4 cup heavy cream
- 1 cup frozen peas
- 1 cup frozen corn
- Salt and black pepper, to taste
- 2–3 store-bought naan breads (or homemade), enough to cover your baking dish
- 2 tablespoons melted butter, for brushing
- 1 tablespoon fresh cilantro, chopped, for garnish (optional)
Instructions
- Preheat the oven. Set your oven to 400°F (200°C). Lightly grease a 9x13-inch baking dish or a large oven-safe skillet and set aside.
- Sear the chicken. In a large skillet or Dutch oven, heat olive oil over medium-high heat. Season chicken pieces with salt and pepper and cook in a single layer for 3–4 minutes per side until lightly golden. The chicken does not need to be cooked through at this stage. Remove and set aside.
- Build the sauce base. In the same skillet, reduce heat to medium and melt the butter. Add the diced onion and cook for 4–5 minutes until softened and translucent. Add garlic and ginger and cook for 1 minute, stirring constantly, until fragrant.
- Bloom the spices. Add the tomato paste, garam masala, cumin, coriander, turmeric, paprika, and cayenne (if using). Stir to coat the onion mixture and cook for 1–2 minutes. This step deepens the flavor of the spices — don’t skip it.
- Simmer the filling. Pour in the crushed tomatoes and chicken broth, stirring to combine and scraping up any browned bits from the bottom of the pan. Return the seared chicken to the skillet. Reduce heat to medium-low and simmer uncovered for 12–15 minutes, until the chicken is cooked through and the sauce has thickened slightly.
- Finish with cream and vegetables. Stir in the heavy cream, frozen peas, and frozen corn. Taste and adjust seasoning with salt and pepper. Simmer for 2 more minutes, then remove from heat. Transfer the filling to your prepared baking dish if not using an oven-safe skillet.
- Add the naan crust. Lay naan bread over the top of the filling, overlapping pieces as needed to cover the surface. Brush generously with melted butter.
- Bake. Transfer to the preheated oven and bake for 15–18 minutes, until the naan crust is golden brown and crisp on top and the filling is bubbling around the edges.
- Rest and serve. Let the pot pie rest for 5 minutes before serving. Garnish with fresh cilantro if desired. Serve directly from the dish, scooping filling and a piece of naan crust into each bowl.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 520 | Protein: 36g | Fat: 24g | Carbs: 38g | Fiber: 4g | Sodium: 680mg
About the cook who shared this
Rachel Abernathy
Week 13 of Rachel’s 30-year story
· San Diego, California
Rachel is a twenty-eight-year-old Marine wife and mom of two who has moved five times in six years and learned to cook a Thanksgiving dinner with half her cookware still in boxes. She married young, survived postpartum depression, and feeds her family of four on a junior Marine's salary with a freezer full of pre-made meals and a crockpot that has never let her down. She writes for the military spouses who are cooking dinner alone in base housing and wondering if they're enough. You are.