I drove to Camp Lejeune.
Four hours. By myself. In my 2009 Honda Civic with 130,000 miles on it and a check engine light that's been on since February. I drove to Camp Lejeune, North Carolina, because Ryan has been driving to me every weekend and I wanted to see where he lives, and because I'm a military kid and military bases are in my blood, and because I missed him and it was Wednesday and Saturday was too far away.
Camp Lejeune is... a military base. If you've seen one, you've seen them all — the same gates, the same ID checks, the same flat beige buildings that look like they were designed by someone who was told 'make it functional' and said 'I can do less than that.' But it's also home. The minute I drove through the gate, I felt something I wasn't expecting: recognition. I know this. The commissary. The PX. The rows of base housing that all look the same. This is where I grew up, even though I never lived at Lejeune specifically. Every base is the same base. Every gate is the same gate.
Ryan's barracks room is small and clean and has nothing on the walls except a photo of his family and an American flag. His roommate, Torres, was out. Ryan cooked for me. He COOKED. For ME. In a barracks kitchen that had a hot plate and a microwave and approximately zero counter space.
He made tacos. Ground beef, taco seasoning (from a packet — he's not a cook, he's a Marine), shredded cheese, lettuce, salsa from a jar. They were the worst-best tacos I've ever eaten. The meat was slightly overcooked. The cheese was from a bag. The lettuce was iceberg, which is barely lettuce. But he stood in that tiny kitchen and he cooked for me with the same focus he probably brings to field exercises, and when he handed me the plate, he looked nervous — genuinely nervous, more nervous than he'd been meeting my parents — and said, 'I know it's not your mom's cooking.'
'It's perfect,' I said. And I meant it. Because the tacos weren't the point. The point was that a twenty-one-year-old Marine stood in a barracks kitchen and tried. He tried for me.
I drove home at midnight. Mom was awake, sitting at the kitchen table with a cup of tea and the journal I gave her. She looked up when I came in.
'Camp Lejeune?' she said.
'How did you know?'
'Rachel. I was a military wife for twenty-two years. I know the drive to Lejeune like I know my own name.'
She poured me tea. We sat at the table. She didn't say 'be careful' again. She didn't say anything about Ryan. She said, 'Tell me about the base.' And I told her, and her eyes got distant, and I realized she was remembering — her own drives to her own bases, her own young love, her own version of sitting in a barracks kitchen eating bad tacos made by a man who was trying.
We sat until 2 AM. She told me about the first meal Dad made her — scrambled eggs, burned. She ate them. She married him anyway.
Some things are genetic. Falling for military men who can't cook might be one of them.
Ryan’s tacos weren’t gourmet — and that’s exactly what made them everything. Ever since that drive to Lejeune, I’ve been drawn to recipes that have that same energy: simple ingredients, a little effort, and a whole lot of heart. This Chicken Pot Pie Baked Potato hits that note perfectly — it’s the kind of meal you can make in a small kitchen with minimal tools, and it tastes like someone genuinely tried. Mom and I actually made these the following weekend, and she said it reminded her of the early years with Dad — making something warm out of almost nothing.
Chicken Pot Pie Baked Potato
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 1 hour | Total Time: 1 hour 10 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 4 large russet potatoes, scrubbed clean
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt, divided
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
- 1/2 medium yellow onion, diced
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 medium carrots, peeled and diced
- 2 celery stalks, diced
- 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour
- 1 1/2 cups low-sodium chicken broth
- 1/2 cup whole milk or heavy cream
- 2 cups cooked chicken breast, shredded or diced
- 3/4 cup frozen peas
- 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- Fresh parsley, chopped, for garnish (optional)
Instructions
- Bake the potatoes. Preheat oven to 400°F. Rub potatoes with olive oil and sprinkle with 1/2 teaspoon salt. Pierce each potato several times with a fork and place directly on the oven rack. Bake for 50–60 minutes, until tender when pierced with a knife.
- Build the filling. About 20 minutes before the potatoes are done, melt butter in a medium saucepan over medium heat. Add onion, carrots, and celery. Cook, stirring occasionally, for 5–6 minutes until softened. Add garlic and cook 1 minute more.
- Make the sauce. Sprinkle flour over the vegetables and stir to coat. Cook for 1 minute. Gradually whisk in chicken broth, then milk. Bring to a simmer, stirring frequently, until the sauce thickens, about 3–4 minutes.
- Add chicken and peas. Stir in the shredded chicken, frozen peas, thyme, remaining 1/2 teaspoon salt, and black pepper. Simmer 2–3 minutes until heated through. Adjust seasoning to taste.
- Load the potatoes. Remove potatoes from the oven and let cool slightly. Cut a deep slit lengthwise across the top of each potato and gently press the ends to open. Spoon a generous amount of the chicken pot pie filling into and over each potato.
- Serve. Garnish with fresh parsley if desired and serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 490 | Protein: 32g | Fat: 13g | Carbs: 58g | Fiber: 6g | Sodium: 540mg
About the cook who shared this
Rachel Abernathy
Week 71 of Rachel’s 30-year story
· San Diego, California
Rachel is a twenty-eight-year-old Marine wife and mom of two who has moved five times in six years and learned to cook a Thanksgiving dinner with half her cookware still in boxes. She married young, survived postpartum depression, and feeds her family of four on a junior Marine's salary with a freezer full of pre-made meals and a crockpot that has never let her down. She writes for the military spouses who are cooking dinner alone in base housing and wondering if they're enough. You are.