I took Ethan to the beach on Wednesday. Just the two of us — Bubbe and grandson, a towel and a bag of sandwiches and a two-year-old who believes the ocean exists specifically for his entertainment. David dropped him off in the morning. "He didn't sleep last night," David said, with the hollow eyes of a man who has a toddler and a newborn and has forgotten what eight hours feels like. I said, "Go home. Sleep. I have the boy." David looked at me with an expression that was half gratitude and half the specific relief of a parent being briefly unburdened, and he left before I could change my mind, which I wouldn't have, because this is what grandmothers do. We take the child. We give the parents back to themselves.
Ethan and I built a sandcastle. I use the term loosely — it was more of a sand pile with ambition, because Ethan's engineering skills are those of a two-year-old and mine are those of a woman whose construction expertise is limited to layer cakes. But we built it together, and he said "big!" with the satisfaction of an architect surveying his masterwork, and I said "very big," because a grandmother's job is to confirm the magnificence of everything her grandchild creates, whether it is a sandcastle or a crayon drawing or a noise that is allegedly a word.
For lunch I packed egg salad sandwiches on challah. Egg salad is the food of my childhood summers — the picnic food, the beach food, the food you could make in ten minutes and eat with sandy fingers and not worry about the sand because the texture was already questionable. Sylvia's egg salad had a secret: a tiny bit of sugar in the mayonnaise, barely perceptible, just enough to round the edges. I add the sugar. I always add the sugar. Ethan ate half a sandwich and wore the other half, which is the appropriate ratio for a two-year-old eating egg salad at the beach.
I wrote about beach food on the blog — about how the foods we eat in summer, on blankets, with sand in the creases of our elbows, are the foods we remember most vividly, because memory is built from sensation, and the sensation of warm bread and cold egg salad and salt air is a combination so specific that it time-stamps itself. I can close my eyes and taste Sylvia's egg salad and hear the Bronx beach — Orchard Beach, City Island — and feel the grit between my teeth, and I am six years old, and Miriam is three, and Irving is reading the newspaper under an umbrella, and Sylvia is unwrapping sandwiches, and the world is whole.
Ethan fell asleep in the car on the way back. I carried him inside. He smelled like sunscreen and ocean and egg salad. I put him on the couch and watched him breathe and thought: this is the chain. This is what it looks like. Small, sleeping, covered in sand.
Driving home with Ethan asleep in the backseat, I knew exactly what I wanted to make—not because I was hungry, but because some days demand a recipe that carries the whole weight of what just happened. Sylvia’s egg salad is the one. It’s the dish that started the chain, the taste that made me a mother who thinks about memory when she packs a cooler, and I’ve made it so many times now that my hands do most of the work while my mind stays at the beach. Here’s how I make it—sugar and all.
Classic Egg Salad on Challah
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 12 min | Total Time: 30 min (includes cooling) | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 8 large eggs
- 1/3 cup good-quality mayonnaise
- 1 tsp granulated sugar (Sylvia’s secret — do not skip)
- 1 tsp Dijon mustard
- 2 stalks celery, finely diced
- 2 tbsp fresh chives or scallions, thinly sliced
- 1/2 tsp kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/4 tsp freshly ground black pepper
- 8 thick slices challah bread
- Butter lettuce leaves, optional
Instructions
- Hard-boil the eggs. Place eggs in a single layer in a saucepan and cover with cold water by one inch. Bring to a full boil over medium-high heat, then cover the pan, remove from heat, and let sit 12 minutes exactly.
- Cool the eggs. Transfer eggs to a bowl of ice water and let sit 8–10 minutes until fully chilled. Peel and roughly chop — some larger chunks are welcome here.
- Make Sylvia’s dressing. In a medium bowl, whisk together the mayonnaise, sugar, and Dijon mustard until smooth. The sugar should dissolve completely; it will not make the salad sweet, only rounded.
- Combine. Add the chopped eggs, celery, and chives to the bowl. Fold gently with a rubber spatula until just combined — do not overmix. Season with salt and pepper, taste, and adjust.
- Rest briefly. Cover and refrigerate for at least 10 minutes to let the flavors settle. The salad can be made up to one day ahead and kept covered in the refrigerator.
- Assemble and serve. Pile the egg salad generously onto four slices of challah. Add a lettuce leaf if using. Top with remaining challah slices. Wrap in wax paper if you’re headed anywhere sandy.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 390 | Protein: 16g | Fat: 23g | Carbs: 29g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 530mg