February 2026. Winter in Memphis, 67 years old, and the cold has settled into the house on Deadrick Avenue the way cold settles into old bones — persistently, without malice, just the physics of aging and December. Rosetta has the thermostat set at 74, our eternal compromise, and I cook warming things: stews and soups and slow-braised meats that fill the house with steam and flavor.
Rosetta beside me through the week, steady as ever, the woman who runs this household with the precision of a hospital ward and the heart of a mother who has loved fiercely for 42 years of marriage. Mama's absence still a presence in the kitchen — her recipes on the counter, her cast iron skillet on the stove, her voice in my head saying "more cinnamon" and "don't overwork the dough".
Comfort food this week: a big pot of collard greens with smoked turkey neck, simmered for three hours until the greens were dark and silky and the pot liquor was a treasure. The kitchen smelled like Mama's kitchen in the shotgun house, and I stood at the stove and stirred and thought about hands — her hands, small and strong, teaching mine everything they know about turning humble ingredients into something that feeds not just the body but the soul.
I sat in the lawn chair next to Uncle Clyde's smoker as the dark came on, and I thought about what I always think about: the chain. From Clyde to me. From me to Trey, maybe, or Jerome, or whoever comes next with the patience and the hands and the willingness to stand next to a fire at three in the morning and wait for something good to happen. The chain doesn't break. The fire doesn't stop. And I am here, 67 years old, in a lawn chair in Orange Mound, Memphis, Tennessee, watching the smoke rise, and the rising is the living, and the living is the gift.
After a week of slow-simmered collard greens and long nights beside Uncle Clyde’s smoker, I find myself with smoked turkey on my hands and a need for something lighter — something that lets the bird shine without another three hours at the stove. This Grape Turkey Salad is exactly that: a way to honor the smoked meat and carry it into a new meal, the kind of simple, wholesome thing Mama would’ve approved of for an afternoon when the heavy cooking is done and the house is finally quiet and warm.
Grape Turkey Salad
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 0 min | Total Time: 15 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 3 cups cooked smoked turkey, shredded or diced
- 1 cup red seedless grapes, halved
- 1/2 cup green seedless grapes, halved
- 1/2 cup celery, thinly sliced
- 1/4 cup red onion, finely diced
- 1/3 cup mayonnaise
- 2 tablespoons plain Greek yogurt
- 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar
- 1 teaspoon honey
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/4 cup pecans, roughly chopped (optional)
- Fresh parsley, chopped, for garnish
Instructions
- Prepare the turkey. Shred or dice the cooked smoked turkey into bite-sized pieces and place in a large mixing bowl.
- Add the fruit and vegetables. Add the halved red and green grapes, sliced celery, and diced red onion to the bowl with the turkey.
- Make the dressing. In a small bowl, whisk together the mayonnaise, Greek yogurt, apple cider vinegar, honey, salt, and black pepper until smooth and well combined.
- Combine. Pour the dressing over the turkey and grape mixture and stir gently until everything is evenly coated.
- Add the pecans. Fold in the chopped pecans if using, reserving a few for topping.
- Chill and serve. Refrigerate for at least 15 minutes before serving to allow the flavors to come together. Garnish with fresh parsley and remaining pecans. Serve over lettuce, on toasted bread, or alongside crackers.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 28g | Fat: 16g | Carbs: 14g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 520mg