I closed on a beautiful craftsman bungalow in Seminole Heights this week — the kind of house that makes me wish I could buy every property I sell. Original hardwood floors, a kitchen with character, a backyard with an avocado tree. The buyers were a young couple, first-time homeowners, and they looked at that house the way I look at a perfectly roasted lamb: with reverence and barely contained desire. I love this part of my job. The moment people walk into a house and their faces change because they can see their future in it. That is what I sell. Not square footage. Futures.
Dimitri called me this week to talk about Mama. He is worried. She is seventy-eight and still at the bakery at 4 AM every day, and he thinks she is pushing too hard. I said Mama has been pushing too hard since 1968 when she arrived in America with a recipe book and no English and she is not going to stop now. Dimitri said I am just like her. I said thank you. He said it was not a compliment. It was. He knows it was. I know it was. We are Papadopouloses. Stubbornness is our love language.
Alexander came home from his grocery store job and complained that his manager does not respect him. I said welcome to working for someone else. He said it is unfair. I said yes. He said what is the point then. I said the point is the paycheck and the paycheck is the freedom and the freedom is the right to someday be your own boss so that no one disrespects you again except your mother, who will disrespect you lovingly until the day she dies. He stared at me. I handed him koulourakia. He ate three and went to his room.
I made pastitsio tonight from Mama's recipe — the real recipe, the Kalymnos version with more cinnamon than the mainland Greeks use and a bechamel so thick you could mortar bricks with it. Alexander helped me layer it, his hands clumsy with the pasta tubes, his attention focused in a way that reminded me of Baba assembling the Easter spit — serious, precise, determined to get it right even when his hands did not know what they were doing yet. My boy is learning. Not just the food. The patience that comes with food.
We ate it at the kitchen table, just the three of us — Alexander, Sophia, and me. Sophia had two servings and said nothing. Alexander had three servings and asked if we could make it again next week. I said we make it every other Sunday at Yia-yia's. He said he meant here, just us. I said yes. He smiled. The pastitsio was perfect and my kitchen smelled like Mama's kitchen and for one evening the house was not empty. It was full. Full of cinnamon and bechamel and the sound of my children eating, which is the sound I love most in this world.
The pastitsio was the heart of that evening, but it was the lamb I mentioned to Sophia later — the way I look at a perfectly roasted lamb, I told her, is the way those buyers looked at their new house: with reverence. Greek Lamb Chops are Mama’s other Sunday staple, the one she makes when she wants to remind us where we come from without saying a word. If you are feeding children who are still learning that patience is an ingredient too, this is the recipe you reach for — bold with lemon and oregano, forgiving in the pan, and finished in minutes once the marinade has done its quiet, unhurried work.
Greek Lamb Chops
Prep Time: 15 min (plus 1 hr marinating) | Cook Time: 12 min | Total Time: 1 hr 27 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 8 lamb loin chops (about 1 inch thick)
- 1/4 cup olive oil
- 3 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 teaspoons dried oregano
- 1 teaspoon dried rosemary
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes (optional)
- 2 tablespoons fresh flat-leaf parsley, chopped, for serving
- Lemon wedges, for serving
Instructions
- Make the marinade. In a small bowl, whisk together the olive oil, lemon juice, minced garlic, oregano, rosemary, salt, black pepper, and red pepper flakes until combined.
- Marinate the chops. Place the lamb chops in a large zip-lock bag or shallow baking dish and pour the marinade over them. Turn to coat evenly. Seal or cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour, or up to 8 hours for deeper flavor.
- Bring to room temperature. Remove the lamb chops from the refrigerator 20 minutes before cooking. Pat them lightly with a paper towel to remove excess marinade, which helps them sear rather than steam.
- Sear the chops. Heat a large cast-iron skillet or grill pan over medium-high heat until very hot. Add the chops in a single layer without crowding. Cook for 4–5 minutes per side for medium (internal temperature of 145°F), or 3 minutes per side for medium-rare.
- Rest and serve. Transfer the chops to a plate and tent loosely with foil. Rest for 5 minutes before serving. Garnish with fresh parsley and serve with lemon wedges alongside roasted potatoes or a simple green salad.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 420 | Protein: 38g | Fat: 28g | Carbs: 2g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 480mg