Mother's Day. I called Betty at seven. Third this year — Bobby beat everyone from Virginia, the time zone advantage endures. She was already dressed, already fed, already watching the phone-church service on her kitchen table. She said "Happy Mother's Day to me." I said "Happy Mother's Day, Mama." She said "I miss you." She doesn't say that often. She says "I'm fine" and "Don't worry" and "The garden needs rain." She doesn't say "I miss you." The pandemic broke something open in Betty — not broke, loosened. The loneliness of three months alone in a house in Evarts loosened the seal on the vault where Betty keeps the feelings she doesn't share, and "I miss you" slipped out like a small bird from a cage.
I said "I miss you too, Mama. I'm coming as soon as I can." She said "I know. Bring soup beans." I said "I always bring soup beans." She said "Bring them anyway."
For Connie, I made brunch. Fifth year. The tradition that started as shrimp and grits and has become a full production: shrimp and grits, biscuits, frittata (the Amber-gifted cookbook innovation), fresh juice, bacon. Clay helped. He made the grits — cheesy, creamy, eighty percent. He stirred them with the attention of a man who is learning that stirring is meditation and the grits are the mantra. Connie ate and said "This is the best Mother's Day brunch." She says that every year. The repetition doesn't diminish it. The repetition IS it. The tradition is the gift. The showing up every year is the present.
Amber called from the hospital. Holiday shift. She sounded tired but okay — the pandemic okay, the "I'm surviving and helping and too busy to break" okay. She starts the ER next month. She said "Mom, I'm going to be an ER nurse." Connie said "I know, baby. You've been an ER nurse since you were twelve and put a Band-Aid on the dog." Amber laughed. The dog's name was Cooper. The Band-Aid was on his paw. The ER training started early.
The shrimp and grits are the heart of our Mother’s Day brunch — they always have been — but a full production needs supporting players, and this Hash Brown Ham Quiche has earned its place at the table. Clay was already stationed at the stove working the grits with that new, quiet focus of his, so I needed something that could hold its own without a lot of hand-holding, something warm and substantial that Connie could settle into between bites of everything else. A crispy hash brown crust, savory ham, eggs cooked through just right — it’s the kind of dish that says we planned this for you, which is exactly the point.
Hash Brown Ham Quiche
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 50 min | Total Time: 1 hr 5 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 3 cups frozen shredded hash browns, thawed and patted dry
- 3 tablespoons butter, melted
- 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1/2 teaspoon salt, divided
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper, divided
- 1 cup diced cooked ham
- 1 cup shredded sharp cheddar cheese, divided
- 4 large eggs
- 1 cup whole milk
- 2 tablespoons sour cream
- 1/4 cup diced green onions
Instructions
- Preheat oven. Heat oven to 425°F. Grease a 9-inch pie plate generously with butter or nonstick spray.
- Make the hash brown crust. In a medium bowl, combine thawed hash browns, melted butter, garlic powder, 1/4 teaspoon salt, and 1/8 teaspoon pepper. Toss to coat evenly. Press the mixture firmly into the bottom and up the sides of the prepared pie plate to form a crust.
- Par-bake the crust. Bake for 20–25 minutes, until the edges are golden and the bottom has crisped up. Remove from oven and reduce heat to 350°F.
- Layer the filling. Scatter the diced ham evenly over the crust. Sprinkle 3/4 cup of the shredded cheddar over the ham.
- Make the egg custard. In a bowl, whisk together eggs, milk, sour cream, green onions, remaining 1/4 teaspoon salt, and remaining 1/8 teaspoon pepper until smooth and fully combined.
- Fill and top. Pour the egg mixture evenly over the ham and cheese. Sprinkle the remaining 1/4 cup cheddar across the top.
- Bake. Bake at 350°F for 28–32 minutes, until the center is just set and no longer jiggles when gently shaken. A knife inserted near the center should come out clean.
- Rest and serve. Let the quiche rest for 5 minutes before slicing. Serve warm alongside grits, biscuits, and whatever else your Mother’s Day table demands.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 17g | Fat: 19g | Carbs: 18g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 620mg