My week with the kids. Detroit Jazz Festival next month. The Riverfront getting ready. Tuesday was a long shift — second-shift overlap on a build target. Cleared it.
Pop's tireder. Sugar runs low some days. Mama monitors. Pop complains. The system holds. Sunday at Mama's. She made greens with hambone the way she has since 1985.
Corn on the cob in the husks on the smoker. Butter and salt after.
Aiden's 11. The youth basketball league. I'm coaching. He's the best player on the team and he knows it. Zaria's 8. Helps me cook on a step stool. Has opinions about the seasoning.
I called Mama Sunday night. She picked up on the second ring. She always picks up.
The Lions on TV Sunday. Lost on a missed field goal. Detroit. The neighborhood collectively groaned at the same moment. You could hear it through the windows.
I read for an hour Sunday night. A book about the auto industry. Half memoir, half history. Made me think about Pop and the line and the fragile contract that built the middle of this country. I underlined the parts that hit.
Watched the Tigers Sunday afternoon. Lost in extras. Detroit reflex. I yelled at the TV the way Pop used to yell at the TV. The TV did not respond. The bullpen will probably not respond either.
Plant ran clean this week. The line ran. The body held. The paycheck is the paycheck.
I made grocery lists on the back of envelopes the way Mama did. The list this week was short — onions, garlic, half-and-half, cornmeal, a pound of bacon. The list is the recipe of the week before it happens.
The basketball court at the rec center got refurbished. New floor. Plays different. Bouncy. I shot a few from the elbow before practice Wednesday. The knee held. The shot fell short.
A neighbor down the street gave me a tomato plant Saturday. He grows them on his porch. Said he had extra. I put it next to the back step where it gets the afternoon sun. Detroit gardens are improvised victories.
A reader wrote in about the smothered pork chops. Said her late husband loved them. I wrote back. I told her about Pop. We exchanged three emails. She's in Saginaw. She's coming to the city in the spring.
The kids next door knocked over my trash cans Tuesday night. Their dad made them help me clean up Wednesday morning. Good man. The kids apologized. I gave them each a Capri Sun. Cycle complete.
Stopped at Eastern Market Saturday. Got chicken thighs, bacon, a watermelon, and a pound of greens that I did not need but bought anyway. The vendors know me by name now. Three of them asked about the family.
I took a walk around the block Sunday morning. The neighborhood was quiet. The trees were the trees. The light was good. I waved at three porches. The porches waved back. Brookline holds.
Mr. Williams across the street had a heart scare. He is okay. We are all watching each other now. I took him a plate of greens and chicken Wednesday. He said, "DeShawn. You're a good neighbor." I said, "We're even, Mr. Williams. You shoveled my walk in 2024." He laughed.
A catering inquiry came in this week — fifty-person family reunion. Booked. Saturday after next.
Truck needed an oil change Saturday. Did it myself in the driveway. Took an hour. The neighbor across the street gave me a thumbs-up from his porch. I gave him one back. Detroit men do not waste words on car maintenance.
Zaria’s got opinions about seasoning — I told you that — but the one thing she never argues about is ice cream. After the corn came off the smoker and the greens were gone and the Lions had already broken our hearts, she climbed up on that step stool one more time and asked if we could make something cold and sweet. That’s the request that ends every Detroit summer Sunday right. This one’s for her, and for Pop, and for anyone else who made it through the week and earned something simple.
Homemade Ice Cream
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 0 min (plus freezing) | Total Time: 4–6 hours | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 2 cups heavy whipping cream
- 1 cup whole milk
- 3/4 cup granulated sugar
- 2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
- 1/4 teaspoon fine salt
- Optional mix-ins: 1/2 cup chocolate chips, fresh berries, or crushed cookies
Instructions
- Combine the base. In a large mixing bowl, whisk together the heavy cream, whole milk, sugar, vanilla extract, and salt until the sugar is fully dissolved, about 2–3 minutes.
- Taste and adjust. Give the base a taste — add a pinch more salt or a splash more vanilla if it needs it. Let the kids weigh in here. They will.
- Churn or freeze. If using an ice cream maker, pour the mixture in and churn according to manufacturer instructions, usually 20–25 minutes, until thick and creamy. If going no-churn, pour into a freezer-safe container and stir every 30 minutes for the first 2 hours to break up ice crystals.
- Add mix-ins. After churning or after the first stir, fold in any mix-ins gently so they stay distributed throughout.
- Final freeze. Transfer to a lidded freezer-safe container. Press a piece of plastic wrap directly against the surface to prevent ice crystals. Freeze at least 3–4 hours, or overnight, until firm.
- Serve. Let the ice cream sit on the counter for 5 minutes before scooping. Serve in bowls or cones. Accept the compliments quietly.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 3g | Fat: 22g | Carbs: 26g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 95mg