Thanksgiving prep week. In the Kowalski household, Thanksgiving is a two-day operation. Wednesday is prep, Thursday is execution. And unlike most American families, our Thanksgiving table is half traditional American and half Polish, because Babcia refuses to accept that turkey and stuffing are sufficient when there are pierogi to be made.
I volunteered to help Babcia with the pierogi this year. This is the first time I've asked — usually she waves off help — but after watching her hands tremble two weeks ago, I wanted to be there. She said yes, quietly, without her usual protest. That scared me more than the arthritis.
We made them on Wednesday afternoon at her house. Just the two of us. She sat at the kitchen table and rolled dough while I made the filling — potato and cheese and sauerkraut, both kinds. Her hands were bad. Worse than I'd seen. She had to stop every few pierogi and flex her fingers, run them under hot water, shake them out. But she kept going.
I rolled dough too, badly, and she corrected me. "Thinner. Even thinner. The dough should almost be see-through." I tried. Mine were twice as thick as hers and she didn't say anything but her expression said plenty. We made eighty pierogi in three hours. It used to take her one hour to make that many. She knew. I knew. Neither of us said it.
At one point she stopped and looked at me and said, "Jakub" — she only uses my Polish name when she's serious — "promise me you'll learn this. All of it. The pierogi, the bigos, the mushroom soup. Promise me." I promised. She went back to rolling dough. That was the whole conversation.
I went home that night and sat in my Jeep in the parking lot of my apartment for ten minutes. I didn't cry. Kowalski men. But I sat there.
Thanksgiving itself was beautiful. Tom carved the turkey. Linda made green bean casserole and mashed potatoes. Babcia's pierogi and bigos anchored the table. I brought my first-ever contribution: a roasted butternut squash soup I'd been practicing. Mom tasted it and said, "Jake, this is really good." Dad ate two bowls and said nothing, which is higher praise. Babcia had a spoonful and said, "Next time, more dill." Next time. More dill. I'll take it.
Babcia’s "next time, more dill" stuck with me the whole drive home — not as a critique, but as an invitation. That soup I brought to Thanksgiving wasn’t just a side dish; it was my opening bid on the promise I made in her kitchen, proof that I was actually learning to cook and not just watching. I’ve made it a dozen times since, tweaking it until it felt less like a recipe I found and more like one I earned — and this lentil and butternut squash version is where it landed.
Lentil and Butternut Squash Soup
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 40 min | Total Time: 55 min | Servings: 6
Ingredients
- 1 medium butternut squash (about 2 lbs), peeled, seeded, and cubed
- 2 tablespoons olive oil, divided
- 1 medium yellow onion, diced
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 medium carrots, peeled and diced
- 1 cup red lentils, rinsed
- 1 can (14.5 oz) diced tomatoes
- 4 cups low-sodium vegetable broth
- 1 cup water
- 1 teaspoon ground cumin
- 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
- 1/4 teaspoon ground coriander
- 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 2 tablespoons fresh dill, chopped (plus extra for garnish)
- 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
Instructions
- Roast the squash. Preheat oven to 400°F. Toss cubed butternut squash with 1 tablespoon olive oil and a pinch of salt. Spread on a baking sheet in a single layer and roast 20–25 minutes, until tender and lightly caramelized at the edges. Set aside.
- Sauté the aromatics. Heat remaining 1 tablespoon olive oil in a large Dutch oven or soup pot over medium heat. Add onion and carrots; cook 5–6 minutes until softened. Add garlic, cumin, paprika, and coriander; stir and cook 1 minute until fragrant.
- Build the soup. Add lentils, diced tomatoes, broth, and water. Stir to combine. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to a gentle simmer. Cook uncovered for 20 minutes, stirring occasionally, until lentils are completely soft.
- Add the squash. Stir the roasted butternut squash into the pot. Use a wooden spoon or potato masher to crush some of the squash into the broth for body, leaving the rest in chunks.
- Finish and season. Stir in lemon juice and fresh dill. Taste and adjust salt and pepper. Simmer 5 more minutes to let the flavors come together.
- Serve. Ladle into bowls and garnish with extra fresh dill. Serve with crusty bread — or, if you’re lucky, alongside a plate of Babcia’s pierogi.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 235 | Protein: 11g | Fat: 5g | Carbs: 38g | Fiber: 9g | Sodium: 420mg
About the cook who shared this
Jake Kowalski
Week 34 of Jake’s 30-year story
· Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Jake is a twenty-nine-year-old brewery worker, newlywed, and proud Polish-American from Milwaukee's Bay View neighborhood. He didn't start cooking until his grandmother Babcia Helen passed away and left behind a stack of grease-stained recipe cards. Now he makes pierogi from scratch, smokes meats on a balcony smoker his landlord pretends not to notice, and writes for guys who want to cook good food but don't know a roux from a rub.