First week of summer, and the children have already asked me "what are we doing today" forty-seven times. I counted. Well, I didn't count — I estimated, but it feels like forty-seven. Possibly forty-eight.
Monday through Wednesday, Marcus and Jasmine went to Vanessa's house while I worked on school stuff — counselors don't truly get summers off. We have trainings, case reviews, and this year I'm updating the referral system for the county, which involves spreadsheets and meetings and the specific kind of bureaucratic endurance that makes people assume counselors are patient. We're not patient. We just have very good poker faces.
Thursday I had the kids, plus Vanessa's daughter Imani (who is nine, like Jasmine, and equally bookish, which means they spent most of the day reading in the same room in companionable silence like two tiny professors). Marcus, having no one his age to entertain him, decided that the appropriate activity for a summer Thursday was to take apart the toaster. He didn't ask. He just appeared in the kitchen with a screwdriver and the toaster in pieces on the counter, looking at me like, "What? I'm learning." I made him put it back together. It works, but it now makes a clicking noise that I'm choosing to ignore.
I cooked more this week than I have in months. Summer does that — when you're home, the kitchen calls. Monday I made a big pot of jambalaya, using turkey sausage instead of andouille because health, and it lasted three days. Wednesday I made a sheet pan dinner — chicken thighs, sweet potatoes, green beans — because sometimes you need a meal that dirties one pan and takes thirty minutes. Friday I let the kids help me make homemade pizza. Marcus did the dough (pounding it, which seemed therapeutic). Jasmine did the sauce (from a jar, because I am not making pizza sauce from scratch on a Friday in June). The pizza was lopsided and beautiful and they ate it like they'd made Thanksgiving dinner.
Saturday at Mama's. She was up. She was dressed. She was in the kitchen. I walked in and she was standing at the counter slicing okra, and I stood in the doorway for a full ten seconds watching her because the normalcy of it — my mother, in her kitchen, cooking — was so beautiful it hurt. She was making fried okra. She let me help. We stood side by side at that counter the way we've stood a thousand times, her talking, me listening, both of us with our hands in food. She told me about her garden, which she hasn't been able to tend but Curtis has been watering. She told me about a bird that built a nest on the porch. She told me everything except the cancer, because for one Saturday morning, the cancer didn't get to be in the room.
I went home and cried in the shower. Good tears. The kind that come from seeing your mother standing up and slicing okra and being Brenda for an hour. I'll take an hour. I'll take whatever I can get.
The sheet pan dinner on Wednesday — chicken thighs, sweet potatoes, and green beans — was the quiet workhorse of the week, the meal that asked nothing of me and gave everything back. The green beans were the part the kids actually ate without negotiation, which felt like its own small miracle. I’ve been thinking about how to give those green beans a little more life, a little more summer in them, and this Milk Street preparation — ginger, heat, a touch of sweet — does exactly that. It’s the kind of side dish that doesn’t need a special occasion, just a Tuesday when you want the table to feel a little brighter than the day was.
Milk Street’s Sweet and Spicy Ginger Green Beans
Prep Time: 10 min | Cook Time: 15 min | Total Time: 25 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 lb fresh green beans, trimmed and halved crosswise
- 2 tablespoons neutral oil (vegetable or avocado oil)
- 1 tablespoon fresh ginger, peeled and finely grated
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 2 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce
- 1 tablespoon honey
- 1 tablespoon rice vinegar
- 1/2 teaspoon red pepper flakes, or more to taste
- 1 teaspoon toasted sesame oil
- 1/4 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more as needed
- 1 tablespoon toasted sesame seeds, for garnish (optional)
- 2 scallions, thinly sliced, for garnish (optional)
Instructions
- Blanch the green beans. Bring a large pot of well-salted water to a boil. Add the green beans and cook for 3 to 4 minutes, until bright green and just tender but still with some bite. Drain and immediately transfer to a bowl of ice water to stop cooking. Drain again and pat dry with a clean kitchen towel.
- Make the sauce. In a small bowl, whisk together the soy sauce, honey, rice vinegar, and red pepper flakes until the honey is fully dissolved. Set aside.
- Build the aromatics. Heat the neutral oil in a large skillet or wok over medium-high heat until shimmering. Add the ginger and garlic and cook, stirring constantly, for about 45 seconds — just until fragrant. Do not let them burn.
- Add the beans. Add the blanched, dried green beans to the skillet and toss to coat in the aromatics. Spread in a single layer and let cook undisturbed for 1 to 2 minutes so the beans get some color. Toss and repeat once more.
- Add the sauce. Pour the soy-honey mixture over the beans and toss to coat. Cook for 1 to 2 minutes more, until the sauce thickens slightly and clings to the beans.
- Finish and serve. Remove from heat and drizzle with toasted sesame oil. Taste and adjust salt or red pepper flakes as needed. Transfer to a serving dish and top with sesame seeds and scallions if using. Serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 115 | Protein: 3g | Fat: 8g | Carbs: 11g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 370mg