Father's Day is Sunday. I know this because Diego made me a card at camp that he hid under his pillow with the stealth of a nine-year-old, which is to say no stealth at all — I found it while changing his sheets on Tuesday. I put it back. I will act surprised. This is fatherhood: performing ignorance so your kid can perform generosity, and both of you knowing the other knows, and it being perfect anyway.
I called Hector on Saturday. He doesn't like the phone — never has, even before the hearing started going — so our calls are short, functional, the conversational equivalent of a handshake. I asked how he was. "Fine." I asked about the diabetes. "Taking the pills." I asked if he was actually taking the pills. Silence, which is Hector-speak for "sometimes." I told him I loved him. He said, "Okay, mijo." That's it. That's the whole call. Twenty years ago, that would have frustrated me. Now I understand — Hector said everything he needed to say to me when I was twenty, sitting in that apartment, circling the drain. He said it once, and it saved my life, and he doesn't need to say it again. Some men spend their whole lives trying to hear their fathers say the words. I heard mine say the one thing that mattered, and I carry it, and it's enough.
Lisa orchestrated the Father's Day production on Sunday morning. Diego presented the card — I acted surprised, won an Oscar — and Sofia gave me a coupon book she'd made with offerings like "One Free Hug" and "I Will Not Read at Dinner (One Time)." The twins gave me a rock they'd found in the yard, which they presented with great ceremony and which is now on my nightstand because that's where important things go. Lisa gave me a new pair of grilling tongs — spring-loaded, stainless steel, sixteen inches — and if you think a man can't be moved to genuine emotion by grilling tongs, you've never stood at a Weber kettle with the wrong equipment.
I grilled steaks. Of course I grilled steaks. Ribeyes, salt and pepper, screaming hot grill, four minutes a side. I used my last bag of frozen green chile to make green chile butter — softened butter, minced roasted green chile, garlic, a pinch of salt, mixed and chilled and sliced into coins that melt over the steak like a benediction. That's the last of the September stash. The freezer is empty. Three months until chile roasting season. I'll survive, but I won't be happy about it. Lisa said, "You'll live." She's probably right. She usually is. Feed your people. The game is won at the table.
The new tongs Lisa gave me deserved a proper test run, and standing over that Weber with real heat and something worth cooking is the only way to break in good equipment right. If you’re lighting the grill for people you love — for a Father’s Day, for any day that matters — this Portuguese BBQ Peri Peri Chicken is the recipe I come back to when I want smoke, heat, and a sauce with enough personality to match the occasion. It’s bold the way a good meal should be bold, and the homemade peri peri marinade does the heavy lifting while you stand there looking like you know what you’re doing.
Portuguese BBQ Peri Peri Chicken (Homemade Nandos Recipe)
Prep Time: 20 min | Cook Time: 40 min | Total Time: 1 hr (plus 2–8 hrs marinating) | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 whole chicken (about 3.5–4 lbs), spatchcocked (backbone removed, flattened)
- 6–8 bird’s eye chilies (or 4 fresno chilies for medium heat), stems removed
- 4 cloves garlic, peeled
- 1/4 cup olive oil
- 3 tablespoons fresh lemon juice (about 1 large lemon)
- 1 tablespoon red wine vinegar
- 1 1/2 teaspoons smoked paprika
- 1 teaspoon dried oregano
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon freshly cracked black pepper
- 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper (optional, for extra heat)
- Lemon wedges and fresh parsley, to serve
Instructions
- Make the peri peri marinade. Combine the chilies, garlic, olive oil, lemon juice, red wine vinegar, smoked paprika, oregano, salt, pepper, and cayenne (if using) in a blender or food processor. Blend until smooth. Taste and adjust heat or salt as needed.
- Marinate the chicken. Pat the spatchcocked chicken dry with paper towels. Place it in a large zip-top bag or baking dish and pour roughly two-thirds of the peri peri sauce over it, coating all surfaces including under the skin where possible. Reserve the remaining sauce for basting. Refrigerate for at least 2 hours, or overnight for best flavor.
- Prepare the grill. Set up your grill for two-zone cooking: high heat on one side, medium-low on the other. For a charcoal grill, bank the coals to one side. For gas, preheat one side to high and leave the other on low. Clean and oil the grates well.
- Sear the chicken. Remove the chicken from the marinade and let any excess drip off. Place skin-side down over direct high heat. Grill undisturbed for 5–6 minutes until the skin is charred and releases naturally from the grate.
- Finish over indirect heat. Flip the chicken and move it to the indirect-heat side of the grill. Close the lid and cook for 28–34 minutes, basting with the reserved peri peri sauce every 10 minutes, until an instant-read thermometer inserted into the thickest part of the thigh reads 165°F.
- Char and rest. For extra char, return the chicken skin-side down to direct heat for 2–3 minutes at the very end. Transfer to a cutting board, tent loosely with foil, and rest for 8–10 minutes before carving.
- Serve. Cut into pieces and arrange on a platter. Spoon any resting juices over the top, garnish with fresh parsley, and serve with lemon wedges alongside.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 430 | Protein: 39g | Fat: 29g | Carbs: 4g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 510mg