Nashville decided it was fall this week. Not gradually — overnight. Monday was 85 degrees and by Wednesday the high was 62 and I was digging through Chloe's closet trying to find a jacket that still fit her, which it didn't, because children grow like they're being paid by the inch. I found one of Jayden's old fleeces that was too big for him and too small for her and called it a vest. Parenting is creative problem-solving with limited resources. I should put that on a resume.
I had my first clinical skills lab this week. Not on a real patient — on a mannequin head called "Dexter" (every dental school has a Dexter, apparently, and they're all equally creepy). I held the scaler for the first time and my hands knew what to do before my brain caught up. The angle, the pressure, the careful scraping motion against Dexter's plastic teeth. Dr. Whitfield walked by, watched me for thirty seconds, and said nothing, which in Dr. Whitfield language means "you're doing it right." She only speaks when you're doing it wrong. Silence is her applause.
Chloe brought home her first "art project" of the fall — a paper plate turkey. Brown body, colored feather-fingers fanned out, googly eyes glued on slightly crooked. She said, "His name is Gerald." I said, "Like Mr. Gerald at the Waffle House?" She said, "Who?" She doesn't know about Mr. Gerald. She just chose the name. But I'm going to tell Mr. Gerald about his paper plate namesake, because he deserves the honor.
Jayden is nineteen months old and has figured out how to open doors. Not locked doors — just the regular knob-turn kind — but that's enough to turn our apartment into an escape room in reverse. He opened the bathroom door on Wednesday and I found him standing in the bathtub, fully clothed, turning the faucet on. He wasn't upset. He was conducting a science experiment. I respect the curiosity. I do not respect the water damage.
I made beef stew this week. The real kind — chuck roast cut into chunks, browned in the Dutch oven, slow-simmered with potatoes, carrots, onion, tomato paste, beef broth, and a bay leaf. Earline's recipe card says: "Stew. Brown the beef. Add everything else. Wait." That's it. That's the recipe. "Wait." Like patience is an ingredient. For Earline, it was. She believed that the best food takes time, and the best people do too, and rushing either one ruins the result.
The stew simmered for three hours while I studied and the apartment filled with that fall-stew smell that wraps around you like a blanket and says: it's okay. It's October soon. The leaves are turning. The world is changing. You're changing with it. Have some stew.
Earline’s stew was simmering and I needed something to put alongside it — something that felt just as unhurried, just as honest. The carrots were already on the counter (I’d bought a whole bag for the stew and only used half), and parsnips were right there at the store looking very much like fall had sent them personally. Roasting them together with a little honey and thyme while the stew did its slow work felt like the right call — two simple things, side by side, both just waiting to become something worth sitting down for.
Roasted Carrots and Parsnips
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 35 minutes | Total Time: 45 minutes | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 lb carrots, peeled and cut into 2-inch pieces on the diagonal
- 1 lb parsnips, peeled and cut into 2-inch pieces on the diagonal
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 tablespoon honey
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 teaspoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme)
- 3/4 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 2 tablespoons fresh flat-leaf parsley, roughly chopped (for serving)
Instructions
- Preheat. Heat your oven to 400°F. Line a large rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper or foil.
- Cut the vegetables. Peel the carrots and parsnips and cut them on the diagonal into roughly 2-inch pieces. Try to keep the pieces similar in size so they roast evenly. If your parsnips are thick at the top, halve those pieces lengthwise.
- Toss to coat. In a large bowl, whisk together the olive oil, honey, garlic, thyme, salt, and pepper. Add the carrots and parsnips and toss well until every piece is coated.
- Spread and roast. Spread the vegetables in a single layer on the prepared baking sheet, making sure they aren’t crowded — crowded vegetables steam instead of roast. Slide the pan into the oven and roast for 20 minutes.
- Flip and finish. After 20 minutes, flip the vegetables with a spatula and return the pan to the oven. Roast another 12–15 minutes, until the edges are caramelized and golden and the centers are fork-tender.
- Serve. Transfer to a serving dish, scatter the fresh parsley over the top, and serve immediately alongside stew, roasted meat, or anything else that’s been waiting patiently on the stove.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 185 | Protein: 2g | Fat: 11g | Carbs: 23g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 310mg