Thanksgiving. This is my third Thanksgiving out of the foster system. My third one where the table was chosen and not assigned. I drove to Prattville Tuesday evening after work and stayed through Sunday, which I have never done before, and which Gloria suggested because she said she could use the help with the cooking. I think she could use the help and she could also use the company, and both of those things being true at once is how she would always phrase it.
Wednesday we made the dressing, which is a two-day project: cornbread baked the day before, crumbled and left out to dry slightly, then combined with toasted white bread, sauteed celery and onion, chicken broth, eggs, herbs. She mixed it by hand. She let me add the broth slowly while she judged the texture. You want it wet enough to hold together but not gluey. We got it right.
Thursday the turkey went in at seven in the morning. James was in charge of the turkey, he has a brine he makes the night before, and I was in charge of the sweet potato casserole and the pecan pie. The casserole went in first. The pie went in when the turkey came out to rest.
When we all sat down at that table with all that food, James said grace the way he does, simply and with conviction, and Gloria held my hand during it. I have been at this table for five years now. I know what grace sounds like in James voice. I know the specific warmth of that kitchen in November. I am a person who belongs somewhere. There are children in foster care right now who do not know yet that this is possible. I want to tell them all. It is possible.
The dressing Gloria and I made that Wednesday is the heart of what I want to share here — that slow, two-handed process of crumbling and tasting and judging the texture together is something I’ll carry with me long after the leftovers are gone. This sausage and herb stuffing follows that same spirit: toasted bread, aromatics cooked low and slow, broth added gradually until it feels right. It’s the kind of recipe you make with someone, even if that someone is just your past self learning what belonging tastes like.
Sausage and Herb Stuffing
Prep Time: 25 minutes | Cook Time: 45 minutes | Total Time: 1 hour 10 minutes | Servings: 10–12
Ingredients
- 1 loaf (about 16 oz) sturdy white sandwich bread, cut into 3/4-inch cubes (about 12 cups)
- 1 lb mild or sage pork breakfast sausage, casings removed
- 6 tablespoons unsalted butter, divided
- 1 large yellow onion, diced small
- 4 stalks celery, diced small
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon fresh thyme leaves (or 1 teaspoon dried)
- 1 tablespoon fresh sage, chopped (or 1 teaspoon dried rubbed sage)
- 1 teaspoon fresh rosemary, minced (or 1/4 teaspoon dried)
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more to taste
- 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- 2 1/2 to 3 cups low-sodium chicken broth, warmed
- 2 large eggs, beaten
- 2 tablespoons fresh flat-leaf parsley, chopped
Instructions
- Dry the bread. Spread bread cubes on two large rimmed baking sheets. Leave out uncovered overnight to dry, or bake at 300°F for 20–25 minutes, tossing once, until dried through but not browned. Transfer to a very large mixing bowl.
- Brown the sausage. Heat a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add sausage and cook, breaking it into small crumbles, until fully browned, about 7–8 minutes. Transfer sausage to the bowl with the bread, leaving drippings in the skillet.
- Cook the aromatics. Reduce heat to medium. Add 4 tablespoons of the butter to the skillet. Once melted, add onion and celery and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened and translucent, about 8–10 minutes. Add garlic, thyme, sage, and rosemary and cook 1 minute more. Season with salt and pepper. Scrape everything into the bread-and-sausage bowl.
- Preheat and prep the pan. Heat oven to 350°F. Grease a 9x13-inch baking dish with the remaining 2 tablespoons butter (use the wrapper or a pastry brush).
- Add broth and eggs. Pour 2 1/2 cups of the warm broth over the bread mixture. Add the beaten eggs and parsley and fold gently to combine. The mixture should be moist and hold together when pressed — not soupy, not dry. Add the remaining 1/2 cup broth a splash at a time if it seems too stiff.
- Transfer and bake. Spread stuffing evenly into the prepared baking dish. Cover tightly with foil and bake for 30 minutes. Uncover and bake an additional 15–20 minutes until the top is golden and slightly crisp at the edges.
- Rest and serve. Let the stuffing rest for 10 minutes before serving. Garnish with additional fresh parsley if desired.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 310 | Protein: 12g | Fat: 17g | Carbs: 28g | Fiber: 2g | Sodium: 620mg