Mother's Day. The first Mother's Day where I can hug Mama without a mask. The first Mother's Day that's not through a door or a phone or a screen. I drove to Mama's apartment Sunday morning with all three kids. Chloe carried a cake she baked (lemon, with cream cheese frosting — her latest obsession). Jayden carried a card (drawn, messy, beautiful). Elijah carried a dandelion he picked from the parking lot, which was wilted by the time we arrived but which he presented to Mama with the solemnity of a diplomat offering a peace treaty. Mama took the dandelion and put it in a glass of water on her kitchen table and said, "That's the prettiest flower I've ever received." It was a weed. It was the prettiest flower she's ever received. Grandmothers turn weeds into treasures. That's the alchemy of Lorraine.
I cooked for Mama this year. At her apartment. In her kitchen. The reversal: the daughter cooking for the mother in the mother's kitchen, using the mother's pots, standing at the mother's stove. I made brunch: biscuits and gravy, scrambled eggs, bacon, fruit salad (Chloe's contribution), and fresh-squeezed orange juice (Jayden squeezed — his contribution was mostly pulp and effort, heavy on effort). The kitchen was full of us — four Mitchells and one kitchen and the noise and the mess and the love that looks like chaos because it is chaos and chaos is how Mitchells celebrate.
Mama sat at her table and let herself be served. Lorraine Mitchell, who has served everyone her entire life — served customers at Kroger, served food to her children, served prayers at church, served everything to everyone always — sat in a chair and let her daughter and grandchildren bring her food. She ate. She smiled. She said: "The biscuits are almost as good as mine." Almost. The word that means: you're close. You're so close. One more generation and the biscuits will be right. Chloe will get them right. The line improves.
Terrence sent flowers — to me AND to Mama. Two bouquets. One for the mother of his son, one for the grandmother of his son. The card to Mama said: "Thank you for the parking lot. Thank you for the blanket. Thank you for everything. Happy Mother's Day, Ms. Lorraine." The parking lot. The blanket. Everything. Terrence remembers. From 250 miles away, through the distance and the co-parenting and the new normal, Terrence remembers the woman who sat in a parking lot at 3 AM and heard her grandson's first cry through a phone. He remembers and he sends flowers and Mama put them on the table next to the dandelion and the two bouquets sat together — the expensive one and the free one, the professional one and the baby-picked one — and they were both equally loved. That's Lorraine's table. Everything is equally loved.
When I was planning Mama’s brunch, I wanted something that felt like celebration food — warm, filling, a little indulgent, the kind of thing that makes a kitchen smell like love. This Sausage & Pancakes Casserole is exactly that: it pulls the savory and the sweet into one dish, no short-order juggling required, which meant I could actually be present with Mama and the kids instead of chained to the stove. Lorraine has been making brunch for this family for decades; the least I could do was bring something worthy of her table.
Sausage & Pancakes Casserole
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 30 min | Total Time: 45 min | Servings: 8
Ingredients
- 1 lb bulk breakfast sausage
- 2 cups pancake mix
- 1 1/2 cups whole milk
- 2 large eggs
- 1 tsp vanilla extract
- 3 tbsp maple syrup, plus more for serving
- 1/2 cup shredded sharp cheddar cheese
- 1 tbsp unsalted butter, for greasing the pan
- Pinch of salt
Instructions
- Preheat and prep. Heat oven to 350°F. Grease a 9x13-inch baking dish with butter and set aside.
- Cook the sausage. In a large skillet over medium-high heat, cook and crumble the breakfast sausage until no pink remains, about 7–8 minutes. Drain on a paper-towel-lined plate and set aside.
- Mix the batter. In a large bowl, whisk together pancake mix, milk, eggs, vanilla extract, maple syrup, and a pinch of salt until just combined — a few small lumps are fine. Do not overmix.
- Layer the casserole. Pour about half the batter into the prepared baking dish, spreading it to the edges. Scatter the cooked sausage evenly over the batter. Pour the remaining batter over the sausage layer and smooth gently.
- Add the cheese. Sprinkle the shredded cheddar evenly over the top.
- Bake. Bake uncovered for 28–32 minutes, until the casserole is puffed, set in the center, and golden at the edges. A toothpick inserted in the center should come out clean.
- Rest and serve. Let the casserole rest for 5 minutes before cutting into squares. Serve warm with warm maple syrup on the side.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 375 | Protein: 15g | Fat: 19g | Carbs: 36g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 740mg