Father's Day. Year six without Huy. The first post-COVID gathering — small, careful, masked, outside.
The kids came to my house. All three. Tyler drove. They wore masks at the door and then took them off in the backyard because we're family and the yard is big and the risk is low and sometimes you need to see your children's full faces.
Gifts: Tyler gave me a set of shop-forged BBQ hooks — hand-made by a blacksmith he found through the HCC metalworking program. Heavy, beautiful, functional. They hang on the smoker now, holding the brisket when I need to rotate it. He said, "I commissioned these. Told the blacksmith what you needed." My son commissioned custom tools for my smoker. We've come a long way from Walgreens cards.
Emma gave me a framed print of the Bobby Tran BBQ logo — Lily's design, professionally printed on heavy paper. She'd had it done at a print shop in Montrose. Below the logo, in Emma's handwriting: "For the wall of the restaurant. Whenever it's ready."
Whenever it's ready. Not if. Whenever. My daughter believes the restaurant is happening. Her belief is more powerful than my doubt.
Lily gave me analytics. She printed the Bobby Tran BBQ Instagram statistics: 68,000 followers, 4.2 million total video views, top posts ranked by engagement, demographic breakdown of the audience. She presented it like a quarterly report. "Dad, 62% of our followers are aged 25-44 and interested in cooking. This is our core demographic." She's fourteen. She's presenting demographic data. I'm living in a simulation.
I cooked. Of course I cooked. The brisket, the spring rolls, the coleslaw. But this year I made one addition: Ma's pho. Not at Ma's house — at mine. She came over. First time she's been out of her house since the hospital. Linh drove her. She walked through my front door and into my kitchen and looked at the pho pot on my stove and said, "You started without me."
I'd started the broth at 6 AM. Ma took over at noon. She adjusted the fish sauce. She skimmed the foam. She tasted and corrected and tasted again. The broth she'd been making since before I was born, made in my kitchen, by her hands, on Father's Day.
We ate in the backyard. Six of us: me, Tyler, Emma, Lily, Ma, and Ashley. No crowd. No neighborhood. Just the core. The team. The family that cooks.
Happy Father's Day, Ba. Six years. The fire is burning. Your wife is at my table. Your grandchildren are cooking. Your great-grandchildren (someday, no rush) will know your name.
Ăủ rồi. Enough. This is enough.
Ma’s pho and my brisket lived in the same backyard that afternoon, and what struck me afterward was how naturally they belonged together — beef, depth of flavor, time and heat doing the slow work. On the days I want that same combination without a 6 AM start, this sirloin stir-fry with ramen noodles is where I land. It’s got the beef from the smoker side of me and the savory, noodle-forward warmth from Ma’s side, and it comes together in the time it takes for everyone to wash their hands and find a seat. Tyler built me tools for the smoker. Emma believes the restaurant is happening. Lily ran the numbers. The least I can do is keep feeding people — whatever the occasion, whatever the pan.
Sirloin Stir-Fry with Ramen Noodles
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 15 min | Total Time: 30 min | Servings: 4
Ingredients
- 1 lb sirloin steak, thinly sliced against the grain
- 3 packages (3 oz each) ramen noodles, seasoning packets discarded
- 2 tablespoons soy sauce, divided
- 1 tablespoon oyster sauce
- 1 teaspoon cornstarch
- 2 tablespoons sesame oil, divided
- 3 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tablespoon fresh ginger, grated
- 1 red bell pepper, thinly sliced
- 1 cup broccoli florets
- 1 cup snap peas, trimmed
- 1/4 teaspoon red pepper flakes
- 2 green onions, sliced thin
- 1 teaspoon sesame seeds, for garnish
Instructions
- Marinate the beef. In a bowl, toss sliced sirloin with 1 tablespoon soy sauce and the cornstarch. Let sit 10 minutes while you prep the vegetables and boil the noodles.
- Cook the noodles. Boil ramen noodles according to package directions (typically 2—3 minutes). Drain, rinse with cold water to stop cooking, and toss with 1 teaspoon sesame oil to prevent sticking. Set aside.
- Make the sauce. Stir together remaining 1 tablespoon soy sauce, oyster sauce, and red pepper flakes in a small bowl. Set aside.
- Sear the beef. Heat 1 tablespoon sesame oil in a large wok or skillet over high heat until shimmering. Add the sirloin in a single layer — don’t crowd the pan. Sear 1—2 minutes per side until browned but just cooked through. Transfer to a plate.
- Stir-fry the vegetables. Add remaining sesame oil to the pan. Add garlic and ginger; stir 30 seconds until fragrant. Add bell pepper, broccoli, and snap peas. Stir-fry over high heat 3—4 minutes until vegetables are tender-crisp.
- Combine everything. Return the beef to the pan. Add the cooked noodles and pour the sauce over everything. Toss with tongs over high heat for 1—2 minutes until everything is coated and heated through.
- Serve. Divide into bowls. Top with sliced green onions and sesame seeds. Serve immediately.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 430 | Protein: 34g | Fat: 15g | Carbs: 37g | Fiber: 3g | Sodium: 870mg
About the cook who shared this
Bobby Tran
Week 221 of Bobby’s 30-year story
· Houston, Texas
Bobby Tran was born in a refugee camp in Arkansas to parents who fled Saigon with nothing. He grew up in Houston straddling two worlds — Vietnamese at home, Texan everywhere else — and learned to cook from his mother's pho and a neighbor's BBQ smoker. He's a former shrimper, a recovering alcoholic, a divorced dad of three, and the guy who marinates brisket in fish sauce and lemongrass because he doesn't believe in borders, especially when it comes to flavor.