Easter Sunday, round two. The second Easter I have written about, and it was as glorious as the first because Easter does not diminish with repetition — it deepens, the way a roux darkens with stirring, richer and more complex each time around. I was in the kitchen by four. The hams went in at four-thirty. The chicken at six. Sister Mable at six-thirty. Sister Terri at six-thirty-one, talking before her feet were fully through the door.
The service was powerful. Calvin preached about the stone being rolled away, and he said the stone is not just the one in front of the tomb — the stone is every obstacle we place between ourselves and hope, every grief we stack up, every doubt we let harden into a wall. And when the Lord rolls the stone away, it does not disappear. It is still there. But it is no longer blocking the entrance. It is just a stone. I thought about that. I think about Calvin's sermons more than he knows. I carry them in my kitchen the way a singer carries a melody — humming them under my breath while I stir, letting them season the food the way thyme seasons broth.
A hundred and seventy people ate in the fellowship hall. We had enough food. We always have enough food. When I die, which will not be anytime soon because I have too much cooking to do, they can put that on my tombstone: She always had enough food. It would be true. It would be everything.
Marcus ate four plates. Four. I watched him with a mixture of maternal pride and genuine concern for his digestive system. He sat with his friends from school and from church — DeShawn and Jamal and a few others — and they laughed and ate and were young in a way that made the fellowship hall feel like a place where time cannot touch you, where seventeen is forever, where the table never empties. I know better. The table always empties eventually. But today it was full, and today was enough.
CJ could not come for Easter this year — some work thing in Huntsville that he described with apology and guilt in his voice, and I said baby, the church will be here next Easter and so will the fried chicken. He sent flowers. Yellow roses. I put them on the kitchen counter where they stayed all week, bright against the flour and the grease and the ordinary beauty of a kitchen that has just fed a church and lived to tell about it.
CJ couldn’t be there, and there’s something about an empty chair at Easter that sits with you long after the table is cleared—so I wanted the meal itself to feel like an embrace, the kind that says you are loved whether you are here or not. That’s exactly why I turned to this Slow Cooker Maple Brown Sugar Ham: it’s the kind of dish that fills a room with a smell so warm and sweet it almost substitutes for the people you’re missing. I let it do its slow, quiet work all morning while I was at service, and by the time we walked back into that fellowship hall, it was ready—patient and generous, just the way a good table ought to be.
Slow Cooker Maple Brown Sugar Ham
Prep Time: 10 minutes | Cook Time: 6–8 hours | Total Time: 6 hours 10 minutes | Servings: 14–18
Ingredients
- 1 bone-in spiral-cut ham (8–10 lbs), fully cooked
- 1/2 cup pure maple syrup
- 3/4 cup packed dark brown sugar
- 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard
- 1 tablespoon apple cider vinegar
- 1/2 teaspoon ground cloves
- 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
- 1/4 teaspoon ground ginger
- 1/4 cup water or pineapple juice (for the bottom of the slow cooker)
Instructions
- Make the glaze. In a small bowl, whisk together the maple syrup, brown sugar, Dijon mustard, apple cider vinegar, cloves, cinnamon, and ginger until the sugar is mostly dissolved and the mixture is smooth.
- Prepare the slow cooker. Pour the water or pineapple juice into the bottom of a large (6–8 quart) slow cooker. This keeps the ham moist during the long cook and prevents scorching.
- Place and glaze the ham. Set the ham cut-side down in the slow cooker. Pour and spread the glaze over the entire surface, working it between the spiral slices so the flavor reaches deep into the meat.
- Cook low and slow. Cover and cook on LOW for 6–8 hours. The ham is already fully cooked — you are warming it through and letting the glaze meld into every layer. If your slow cooker runs hot, check at 5 hours.
- Finish under the broiler (optional but worth it). Transfer the ham to a foil-lined baking sheet. Spoon several tablespoons of the juices from the slow cooker over the top. Broil on HIGH for 4–6 minutes, watching closely, until the glaze is bubbling and caramelized at the edges.
- Rest and serve. Let the ham rest for 10 minutes before serving. Spoon any remaining slow cooker juices over the top as a finishing sauce.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 380 | Protein: 34g | Fat: 14g | Carbs: 22g | Fiber: 0g | Sodium: 1420mg