I have been researching restaurant costs. Evenings, after the kids are asleep, I sit at the kitchen table with my laptop and Google searches: "cost to open a restaurant in Detroit," "small restaurant startup costs," "soul food restaurant business plan." The numbers are daunting: fifty thousand to a hundred thousand dollars for a small storefront. Equipment (commercial oven, refrigeration, fryer, prep tables) runs twenty to thirty thousand. Permits, inspections, insurance: five to ten thousand. First and last month's rent: depends on location. Operating costs for the first year: whatever you have left, which is nothing.
I have four thousand three hundred dollars in the Carter's Kitchen savings account. I need approximately fifty thousand more. The gap is the Grand Canyon. But the Grand Canyon was carved by water, one drop at a time, over millions of years. I do not have millions of years. But I have time. And I have the food. And I have the hands.
Jerome said, "What if you had a partner?" The question was not hypothetical. Jerome has been saving too — not for a restaurant, but for a house, for his future, for the things that working men save for when they are disciplined enough to save. He said, "I've got some money. Not restaurant money. But partner money. If you're serious, I'm serious." Jerome. My friend on the line. The man who brought me Miss Doris's fried chicken on the worst days and bought my gumbo on the best days. Jerome is offering to be my business partner. The offer is enormous. The weight of it — the trust, the risk, the friendship wagered on a dream — is more than any dollar amount.
I said, "Let me think about it." He said, "Think fast. I might spend it on something stupid." He was joking. Jerome does not spend money on stupid things. Jerome is the most disciplined man I know, after my father. The offer is real. The partnership is possible. The gap just got smaller.
There was no cooking that night — just spreadsheets, search bars, and the quiet hum of a house that had gone to sleep without me. But somewhere between reading about commercial refrigeration units and staring at that $4,300 balance, I decided I deserved something. Jerome’s offer was still ringing in my head — the trust in it, the weight of it — and the only thing I could think to do was make something cold and sweet and completely unreasonable, just to remind myself that dreams are supposed to feel a little bit like that. This S’mores Milk Shake is exactly what I made: no stove, no plan, just a blender and a little faith that the gap can close.
S’mores Milk Shake
Prep Time: 5 minutes | Cook Time: 0 minutes | Total Time: 5 minutes | Servings: 2
Ingredients
- 2 cups vanilla ice cream
- 1/2 cup whole milk
- 3 tablespoons chocolate fudge sauce, plus more for drizzling
- 4 full graham cracker sheets, broken into pieces, divided
- 1 cup mini marshmallows, divided
- 2 tablespoons chocolate chips
- Whipped cream, for topping
Instructions
- Blend the base. Add the vanilla ice cream, milk, chocolate fudge sauce, and three of the four graham cracker sheets to a blender. Blend on high until smooth and creamy, about 30–45 seconds.
- Add the marshmallows. Drop in 3/4 cup of the mini marshmallows and pulse 3–4 times just to break them up slightly — you want some texture remaining, not a fully smooth blend.
- Prep the glasses. Drizzle the inside walls of two tall glasses with extra chocolate fudge sauce, rotating the glass to coat the sides.
- Pour and top. Divide the shake evenly between the two glasses. Top each with a generous swirl of whipped cream, the remaining graham cracker pieces crumbled over the top, the remaining mini marshmallows, and a scatter of chocolate chips.
- Serve immediately. Drink while you’re still up too late, still dreaming, still doing the math.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 520 | Protein: 8g | Fat: 18g | Carbs: 82g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 310mg
About the cook who shared this
DeShawn Carter
Week 277 of DeShawn’s 30-year story
· Detroit, Michigan
DeShawn is a thirty-six-year-old single dad, auto plant worker, and a man who didn't learn to cook until his wife left and his five-year-old asked, "Daddy, can you cook something?" He called his mama, who came over with two bags of groceries and spent six months teaching him the basics. Now he's the dad at the cookout who brings the ribs, the guy at the plant whose leftover gumbo starts fights, and living proof that it's never too late to learn.