Summer is settling into its rhythm. Bookstore four days a week, home three days, cooking with Mom when she lets me (which is more and more often — she's loosening her grip on the kitchen, not because she trusts me more but because she's getting tired of doing everything herself, though she'd never admit that).
This week she taught me to make her biscuits. The REAL lesson, not the time during spring break when I watched and she narrated. This time she stood BEHIND me and watched MY hands. 'Cold butter,' she said. 'If it's warm, the biscuits are flat. You want it cold enough to see butter pieces in the dough.' I cut the butter in. 'Enough. Stop. You'll overwork it.' I added the buttermilk. 'Stir with a fork, not a spoon. Less mixing.' I patted out the dough. 'Thicker. You're afraid of height. Don't be.'
I cut twelve biscuits with a floured glass (we don't have a biscuit cutter; we're not Fancy People) and put them in the oven and held my breath for fourteen minutes.
They came out golden. Tall. Flaky. Not Mom's biscuits — mine. Similar, recognizable, related — but mine. The butter was maybe too distributed. The cutting could have been cleaner. But they were biscuits. Real biscuits. My hands made them.
Mom took one, broke it open, buttered it, ate it. Took another bite. 'That'll do,' she said.
I SCREAMED. 'That'll do' is Donna Abernathy for 'These are excellent and I'm proud of you but I'll die before I say so directly.' I have cracked the code. I have decoded the Donna.
Dad had three with sausage gravy. He said, 'Almost as good as your mother's.' Mom said, 'Kevin.' He said, 'I said almost.'
I made biscuits. Real biscuits. From my hands. And they'll do.
In other news: I've been reading food memoirs on my breaks at the bookstore. Carla keeps recommending them — 'Kitchen Confidential' by Anthony Bourdain, 'Blood, Bones & Butter' by Gabrielle Hamilton, 'The Language of Baklava' by Diana Abu-Jaber. These people turned food into stories and stories into careers. They wrote about kitchens the way I write about kitchens — as places where the real life happens, where the human story is told through what you cook and who you cook it for.
Maybe this is a thing. Maybe food writing is a thing. Maybe the path from communications major to 'person who writes about food' is less crazy than it sounds.
Or maybe I'm just a nineteen-year-old who made biscuits and is getting carried away.
Both can be true.
The biscuit lesson stuck with me long after the oven cooled — specifically the parts about cold butter, not overworking the dough, and not being afraid of height. Those aren’t just biscuit rules. They’re bread rules. So the next time I had a free afternoon and Mom was out, I pulled up this dinner roll recipe and treated it like my own private follow-up exam. Same instincts, different dough — and honestly, after hearing “that’ll do” once, I needed to see if I could earn it again.
Homemade Dinner Rolls
Prep Time: 20 minutes | Rise Time: 1 hour 30 minutes | Cook Time: 18 minutes | Total Time: 2 hours 10 minutes | Servings: 12 rolls
Ingredients
- 1 cup whole milk, warmed to about 110°F
- 2 1/4 teaspoons active dry yeast (one standard packet)
- 2 tablespoons granulated sugar, divided
- 3 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for dusting
- 1 teaspoon fine salt
- 4 tablespoons unsalted butter, cold, cut into small cubes — plus 2 tablespoons melted for brushing
- 1 large egg, room temperature
Instructions
- Proof the yeast. In a small bowl, combine warm milk, yeast, and 1 tablespoon of the sugar. Stir gently and let sit for 5–10 minutes until foamy. If it doesn’t foam, your yeast is old or your milk was too hot — start over.
- Mix the dry ingredients. In a large bowl, whisk together the flour, salt, and remaining 1 tablespoon sugar.
- Work in the cold butter. Add the cold butter cubes to the flour mixture and use your fingertips to press and rub the butter into the flour until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs with some pea-sized butter pieces still visible. Cold butter is the whole point. Don’t rush this.
- Add the wet ingredients. Make a well in the center of the flour mixture. Add the foamy yeast mixture and the egg. Stir with a fork until a shaggy dough forms, then turn out onto a lightly floured surface.
- Knead the dough. Knead for 6–8 minutes until the dough is smooth, slightly tacky, and springs back when poked. Resist adding too much flour — a little stickiness is fine.
- First rise. Shape the dough into a ball and place in a lightly oiled bowl. Cover with a clean kitchen towel or plastic wrap and let rise in a warm spot for 1 hour, or until doubled in size.
- Shape the rolls. Punch down the dough and divide into 12 equal pieces. Roll each piece into a smooth ball by cupping your hand over it and rolling in a tight circle on an unfloured surface. Place rolls in a greased 9x13-inch baking dish, just touching each other.
- Second rise. Cover loosely and let rise for 30 minutes, until puffy and the rolls are pressing into each other.
- Bake. Preheat the oven to 375°F. Bake rolls for 16–18 minutes until the tops are deep golden brown. The color matters — pale rolls are underdone in the center.
- Brush and serve. As soon as the rolls come out of the oven, brush generously with the melted butter. Serve warm, pull-apart style, directly from the pan.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 185 | Protein: 5g | Fat: 6g | Carbs: 28g | Fiber: 1g | Sodium: 210mg
About the cook who shared this
Rachel Abernathy
Week 60 of Rachel’s 30-year story
· San Diego, California
Rachel is a twenty-eight-year-old Marine wife and mom of two who has moved five times in six years and learned to cook a Thanksgiving dinner with half her cookware still in boxes. She married young, survived postpartum depression, and feeds her family of four on a junior Marine's salary with a freezer full of pre-made meals and a crockpot that has never let her down. She writes for the military spouses who are cooking dinner alone in base housing and wondering if they're enough. You are.