August looms. Back-to-school season. The annual inventory of growth: Marcus needs new everything again (the boy is a weed in sneakers). Jasmine needs less but wants more (she's twelve in December and twelve-year-olds have opinions about jeans). Isaiah needs school supplies for 8th grade at his school in Marietta. Zoe needs supplies for 5th grade. I am shopping for four children's school supplies. FOUR. Two that are mine and two that are Derek's and all four that are ours, somehow, in this blended, imperfect, beautiful arrangement that started with a church mixer and a man by a piano.
I went shopping with Derek. All four kids. One Target. Two carts. The chaos was magnificent. Marcus and Isaiah argued about notebook colors (Marcus: black; Isaiah: blue; the argument lasted eleven minutes). Jasmine and Zoe picked matching backpacks — purple, because purple is the agreed-upon color of their friendship and also their backpacks. I pushed one cart. Derek pushed the other. We met in the school supplies aisle and looked at each other over a mountain of folders and I thought: this is it. This is what building looks like. Not grand gestures. Target. Two carts. Four kids. A man who pushes a cart beside me.
Made end-of-summer ribs — the full treatment, dry rub with coffee grounds, six hours in the oven, finished on the grill. Derek helped (he's improving — his grill skills have gone from dangerous to adequate to actually helpful, which is a growth trajectory that mirrors his place in this family). Curtis brought the corn. Jasmine made cornbread. Marcus made his salsa. Isaiah — Isaiah — brought cookies. Store-bought, from Publix, but he BROUGHT them. He contributed to the meal. He chose to add something to the table. The wall isn't just open. The boy is walking through it. With cookies.
Those ribs were the centerpiece, but the meal was the whole table — Curtis’s corn, Jasmine’s cornbread, Marcus’s salsa, and Isaiah’s Publix cookies sitting right there like they belonged. That’s what made me want to share these Smoky Black-Eyed Pea Cakes, because they’re the kind of side dish that earns its place: crispy edges, smoky depth, Southern soul. They sit next to something big and bold like coffee-rubbed ribs and they don’t disappear — they show up. Which is all any of us are really trying to do.
Smoky Black-Eyed Pea Cakes
Prep Time: 15 min | Cook Time: 20 min | Total Time: 35 min | Servings: 8
Ingredients
- 2 cans (15 oz each) black-eyed peas, drained and rinsed
- 1/2 cup plain breadcrumbs, plus more for coating
- 1 egg, beaten
- 1/4 cup finely diced red onion
- 1/4 cup finely diced red bell pepper
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 1 tsp smoked paprika
- 1/2 tsp ground cumin
- 1/4 tsp chipotle powder
- 1/2 tsp kosher salt
- 1/4 tsp black pepper
- 2 tbsp olive oil, divided, for pan-frying
- Sour cream or hot sauce, for serving (optional)
Instructions
- Mash the peas. Add the drained black-eyed peas to a large bowl and mash with a fork or potato masher until about two-thirds of the peas are broken down and the mixture holds together. Some whole peas remaining is fine — it gives the cakes texture.
- Build the mixture. Add the breadcrumbs, egg, red onion, bell pepper, garlic, smoked paprika, cumin, chipotle powder, salt, and pepper to the bowl. Stir until fully combined. The mixture should be firm enough to shape; if it feels too wet, add breadcrumbs one tablespoon at a time.
- Form the cakes. Divide the mixture into 8 equal portions and shape each into a patty about 3/4 inch thick. Lightly press the outside of each patty into additional breadcrumbs for a crispier crust. Place on a parchment-lined plate and refrigerate for 10 minutes to help them hold their shape.
- Pan-fry. Heat 1 tablespoon of olive oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Working in batches, cook the cakes for 4 to 5 minutes per side until deep golden brown and heated through. Add the remaining tablespoon of oil between batches as needed. Do not press down on the cakes while they cook.
- Serve. Transfer to a plate lined with paper towels to drain briefly. Serve warm alongside ribs, grilled corn, or cornbread. A dollop of sour cream or a drizzle of hot sauce on top is never wrong.
Nutrition (per serving)
Calories: 175 | Protein: 8g | Fat: 5g | Carbs: 25g | Fiber: 5g | Sodium: 310mg